Last night

As I was about to go to sleep last night my sister called to tell me that Amanda's father had passed away. I attempted to call his sister first several times with no answer. Then I called his father. Zenaida, his wife answered. Mind you I haven't spoken to them in a few years. She asked me who's this and understably I told her, Amanda's mom. I then said in Spanish I think something bad has happened to their son. They had no idea. I finally spoke with Janette and she confirmed that her brother was indeed found in his apartment dead. As I was speaking with her I heard Sammy say he was going to call Amanda and let her know. I jestered to him not to. I needed to confirm before I told Amanda. I called Amanda and I told her, but she said Sammy already called her. I offered my condolences and asked if she wanted me to go with her for the funeral, and she said yes. We hung up so she could call her brother. I frustratingly shouted reapetedly, Why!? To Sammy and we got into another unnecessary argument. He compared Jose's dying to his daughters Mom dying and said he didn't cry. then questioned why was I crying, he didn't treat me right, he was a piece of crap. Then flipped it saying he was a cool guy, but made the whole argument about himself, because he worked a lot of hours and was tired. Then called me dumb. I can't with him anymore. I know there's something seriously wrong with him and his flip flopp emotions.